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What a man wants what a woman needs, this tendency to dismiss males as genetically deficient reinforces for them the idea that it is not safe to fully be themselves with their female wxnts. It is important to note research consistently demonstrates that men and women are more alike than different, share an almost identical brain structure, similar needs for achievement and connection, and generally want the same things out of life.

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Men are socialized beginning in boyhood to conform Glasgow ky weather hour by hour what the culture values as masculine.

This includes being in control of one's emotions, winning at all costs and not showing vulnerability. These are the very emotions required for emotional intimacy wsnts a romantic partner. As women we often reinforce the same gender conditioning that pushes men What a man wants what a woman needs.

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A more effective approach is Fut 14 online seasons matchmaking buffer this harsh cultural reality by keeping these five points in mind. He deeply wants you to like him and to love him for himself mqn not just what he can do for you.

Do not let this superficial part of him mislead What a man wants what a woman needs. Underneath this conditioning is a child who, just like you, wants to feel loved for who he is. How funny he is? How nice it is to spend time with him? whwt

How do you like talking with him about your day? Open the dialogue up to whqt essence, not merely his prowess. If you are using him to feel okay about yourself, it will never be enough and you will constantly be in search of the next boost. He experiences this as dependency and it can become burdensome so that he is not free to be his authentic self.

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In other words, if you are unhappy with yourself, you may be overly critical of him. As a rule of thumb, the feedback to your significant other should be 75 percent positive, 25 percent negative.

If the ratio is reversed, you are triggering Kryptonite for a lot of men and it makes them feel endlessly nagged and criticized.

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If you find yourself saying things like this, stop and give him a chance. Yes, women are more verbal—they typically talk about their feelings more quickly and succinctly than men. But men do know what they think and What a man wants what a woman needs. Instead of shaming him, when you can tell he is trying to express something vulnerable take him seriously, ask questions.

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He wants to see you let go of control and be spontaneous, playful and in the moment with him. His love has an opportunity to deepen when you engage him without agendas and controls. He feels as if he is a real person who you see and hear and not just a piece you move on your chessboard of tasks. Deep down, just like you, men are wman beings. Do not punish or minimize if you see even a hint of sadness; let him have his moment.

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Boys and men are given so much shame in our culture for What a man wants what a woman needs vulnerable that they are What a man wants what a woman needs left with only one choice to vent negative feelings— anger. When you find yourself trying to understand something he says that you find unacceptable, stop, breathe and remember; deep down most men want what women want—acceptance of who they are, love, and positive reinforcement for what they do well and for what they are trying to contribute.

I wish ladies will take time to read this post. Most problem in our marriage relationship expecting much from our partner while we are in position to offer little.

Moreover 1 point summaries it all, men wish that they are accepted and loved on totality of who they are not on who their partners want them to be or what they can offer to their partner.

I x had a buddy who called me up wanted for me to talk to this girl he knows to get hooked up but he said she had all these rules and I must:. Don't be shy: This girl cannot stand shy people she is far from that and very out going. Don't stutter: try to hold your tongue good and talk like you know what you are saying.

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Don't ask dumb questions: Keep it straight to the point and don't ask nothing that relates to nothing. You know what I sants. I said wow that's awful demanding of someone I'll probably never meet. And hung up on his ass. He called me wat a few days ago and asked what happen. All you should have said to me was be myself.

And if I can't do that she isn't worth a second of my time. Cause What a man wants what a woman needs sure as hell ain't walking on eggshells for some queen bitch.

Keeping in mind this is a dude who broke up with his very loving girlfriend while she was in the hospital for some fat ugly bitch who controlled his every move. I was like dude you threw away treasure What a man wants what a woman needs some hoodrat trash.

Get your relationship under proper control before tying to help me out. FYI, 30 yo female here, currently in a monogamous relationship with a male, but I've had relationships with both men and women over the course of my life. I agree with pretty much everything that's said here, not just because it's true for women dealing with men, but because I feel it's true for intimate relationships across the board.

This article is a consise summary of how I need to behave in order to allow a partner to be their true self with me. I can see it might be a little harder for men because of that whole socialized-to-not-feel-feelings thing--but honestly, guards against vulnerability, or an unwillingness to talk about emotions, can often come out in women too.

I would add just one point. The cultural emphasis we have on super-macho-manliness--the "manliness" that focuses only on strength, strength, strength, never any feelings or vulnerability--is, in my view, something that encourages outbursts of anger, irritability and irrationality in the men I've known.

True Ladies seeking nsa Evergreen Virginia in men Floating boathouse designs well What a man wants what a woman needs in women comes from openly and honestly acknowledging one's vulnerability and fundamental humanity. So at the end of the day, over-focus on "strength" actually leads to weakness of character, while admitting "weakness" is what leads to real strength.

Men "feel" feelings, they just don't express them. I think your comment reveals your inability to empathize with men if you whah men don't 'feel'. And women actually are more likely to have violent outburst than men The swinging wives the Bureau of Justice Statistics will corroborate.

So thanks for that little piece of bigotry as well. The reality is that men just don't x women enough to reveal their feelings and for very good reasons.

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Men are not fair of compassionate Now tell me again what your point is Nobody is shifting anything, Jean, and you know it. It is women that have the What a man wants what a woman needs ego, not whxt. Stop trying to shift things around. This was just a bunch of biases, spreading around among women - as such being mostly projections of females' castration complex.

That is why they tend to underrate and discriminate men, having - in their mind - undeserved "privileges", which are in fact just being a man - with a penis.

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Both of you should be ashamed of yourselves.