Instead, he is going to be there because you asked him to be.
The right person will give you so much time and attention and yyou that everyone else will be jealous of you. I lost myself loving people in ways I wanted them to love me. But if I could go back in time and tell my former self-anything it would be to stop.
Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world.
You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation.
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